A man has opened up about a complex situation involving his long-term partner and a new romantic interest.
According to his confession, he got employed at the municipality five years ago and soon after invited his baby mama to move in with him, despite them not being together at the time.
She was already engaged to someone else, but he convinced her to leave that relationship with the promise that he would marry her within a year so they could raise their child together.
Five years later, the couple has had two more children and are expecting a fourth.
However, he admits that they are still in a "vat and sit" (cohabiting without marriage) situation, as he never fulfilled his promise of marriage.
Now, he finds himself drawn to a younger, more ambitious, and attractive colleague at work, whom he believes may be a better match for him.
His words read ...
"Please keep me anonymous. I got employed at the municipality 5 years ago. Immediately after getting employed I asked my baby mama to move in with me. We were not together anymore at the time and she engaged to someone. I convinced her to leave him and promised to save money to marry her within a year. I just wanted us to raise our child together. It's been 5 years and we have two more kids. She's pregnant with our 4th. We are still in a vat and sit because I never got to marry her. I met someone at work and I think she's more of my type than my baby mama. She's young, beautiful and very smart. My baby mama lacks ambitions and she's not as attractive as she used to be. My feelings for her have faded. I love my colleague more. Would it be insensitive to tell her to move out now or should I wait for her to give birth? I'll take care of the kids."
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